What women really want to say when asked “Why are you still single?”

I can't tell you how many times I've been asked "why are you still single?". In part, i wonder if I'm asked this question because of the dominant misconception that marriage (or even a relationship) is something that women should aspire to achieve OR if guys are just perplexed that someone as cool as I … Continue reading What women really want to say when asked “Why are you still single?”

What it REALLY means when a young, Black woman says “I’m fine”

Man oh man. Dating is something else! Recently, I found myself in a situation where I was BEYOND PISSED, but when asked "what's wrong" (by the same person who pissed me off - might I add) I said "I'm fine". What?!?! Why would I say that! It was evident that I wasn't fine... I spent … Continue reading What it REALLY means when a young, Black woman says “I’m fine”